40 and Fearless: My Midlife Leap into Business School

Over 40 and Fearless: My Midlife Leap into Business School

Okay, let's be real. Forty. It's a number that comes with a whole lot of societal baggage, especially for women. We're supposed to be settled, right? Kids (if we have them) are getting older, careers are established, and we're finally finding our groove. But what if your groove includes a sudden, burning desire to completely change direction? That's where I found myself.

For years, I'd been working in… well, let's just say a field far removed from spreadsheets and market analysis. But something was missing. A nagging feeling that I had untapped potential, a hunger for knowledge, and a crazy idea: I wanted a business degree.

The initial reactions were a mix of encouragement and raised eyebrows. "That's brave!" they'd say, which often translated to, "Are you sure you know what you're doing?" And honestly? Some days, I wasn't.

Going back to college at 40 isn't like picking up where you left off after high school. It's a whole different ballgame. Here's what I've learned so far:

1. You're Not "Old," You're Experienced:

• Forget the age gap. Yes, some of my classmates are young enough to be my kids. But they bring fresh perspectives, and I bring… well, the accumulated wisdom of life. We learn from each other.
• My years of navigating the real world? Invaluable. I've handled budgets, negotiated deals, and managed people (mostly my own sanity). These experiences are assets, not liabilities.

2. Time Management is Your New Superpower:

• Balancing classes, assignments, and life? It's a tightrope walk. But you learn to prioritize, delegate (where possible!), and say "no" without guilt.
• Late nights become the norm, and caffeine becomes your best friend. But the sense of accomplishment? Totally worth it.

3. The Fear is Real, But So is the Reward:

• Imposter syndrome? Oh, it's there. Doubts creep in: "Am I smart enough? Can I keep up?" But you push through.
• Every A, every completed project, every "aha!" moment is a victory. You're proving to yourself (and maybe a few doubters) that you can do this.

4. You Rediscover Yourself:

• College isn't just about textbooks. It's about exploring new ideas, meeting incredible people, and rediscovering passions you thought you'd lost.
• You realize you're capable of more than you ever imagined.

5. Community is Key:

• Find your tribe. Other non-traditional students, supportive professors, and friends who cheer you on. They'll be your lifeline.
• Don't be afraid to ask for help. Everyone struggles at times.

So, if you're a woman over 40 with a dream, a spark, a crazy idea – go for it. Don't let age, fear, or anyone else hold you back. This is your time. Your journey. And trust me, it's going to be amazing.

This isn't just about getting a degree. It's about rewriting the narrative, proving that life doesn't have an expiration date, and embracing the power of reinvention.

Now, if you'll excuse me, I have a finance exam to study for. Wish me luck!